Community Guidelines
Last updated 29 August 2026
What flow is for
- flow is for finding and sharing real events with other students. Everything below follows from that.
- These guidelines form part of our Terms of Service, so breaking them can cost you your account.
- They apply everywhere on flow: listings, comments, photographs, profiles and what you send to a host.
Treat people well
- Do not harass, threaten, bully or intimidate anyone.
- Do not attack people for who they are. Race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, disability, sex, sexual orientation and gender identity are not up for debate here.
- Do not post sexual content, and do not direct unwanted sexual attention at another member.
- Do not encourage anyone to harm themselves or anybody else.
- Disagreeing with somebody is fine. Making them dread opening the app is not.
Being a good guest
- Answer honestly. Going means you intend to be there.
- If your plans change, change your answer. Hosts plan on the numbers they can see, and a place nobody releases is a place nobody else could take.
- Only bring guests where the host has allowed it, and say how many you are actually bringing.
- Respect the venue, its staff and its rules. You are its guest as well as the host's.
- If a host or the venue asks you to leave, leave.
Being a good host
- Describe your event accurately: where it is, when it starts, what it costs and what it actually is.
- Do not advertise with somebody else's photographs, and do not imply that a venue, an association or flow is involved when it is not.
- Think about capacity before you publish. Do not invite more people than the space can safely hold.
- Be reachable while your event is running, and answer the people who tell you they have arrived or that something is wrong.
- Cancel properly. Tell the people who replied, as early as you can.
- What happens at your event is your responsibility. Take it seriously.
What you may not post
- Anything unlawful.
- Anything that sexualizes a child. We remove it, close the account and report it.
- Content that offers, promotes or helps arrange the supply of drugs.
- Threats, harassment, or claims about a real person that you know to be untrue.
- Hate speech, or content promoting violence or an organization that practises it.
- Spam, scams, phishing, pyramid schemes, or anything built to take money off members.
- Somebody else's work passed off as yours, or anything that infringes another person's rights.
- Somebody else's personal information without their agreement, including an address, a phone number, or a photograph they did not want shared.
- Anything that misrepresents who you are, who you act for, or whether an event is real.
Other people in your photographs
- A photograph from an event nearly always shows people who never chose to be in it.
- Ask first where somebody is identifiable and the setting is not obviously public.
- If somebody asks you to take a photograph down, take it down. Whether their reason is good enough is not your call to make.
- Never post an intimate image of somebody without their agreement. That costs you your account, and it may be a criminal offence.
- If a photograph of you has been posted and you want it gone, report it and we will deal with it.
Safety at events
- Look after the people around you. If somebody seems unwell or unsafe, tell the host or the venue's staff.
- In an emergency call 112 first. flow is not an emergency service and nothing sent through it reaches one.
- The legal age for buying alcohol in the Netherlands is 18. Do not buy it for somebody who is under 18.
- Do not bring or supply drugs.
- Do not try to get into an event you have been asked to stay away from.
- Hosts and venues decide who comes in. Respect the door.
Reporting something
- Every listing, comment and profile can be reported from the item itself.
- Tell us what is wrong. Where you report something as a safety concern, or as misleading, we ask you to describe it, because those two always need a person to read them.
- Where somebody is a problem for you rather than for everybody, blocking may be faster. A block stops them reaching you.
- Reporting is confidential. We do not tell somebody who reported them.
- Do not use reports as a weapon. Deliberately false reports are themselves a breach of these guidelines.
How we enforce these rules
- A person reviews reports. We do not restrict or suspend an account automatically.
- What we can do, in rough order of severity:
- remove the content;
- restrict the account, so it can still browse and see its own past events but cannot reply to events, comment, host or invite anyone;
- suspend the account, which signs it out and keeps it out.
- Where we act, we tell you what we did and why.
- We weigh what happened, whether it was deliberate, whether it has happened before, and who it affected. A first misjudged comment is not a suspension. Something that put a person at risk can be.
- Separately from anything we do, a host may decide that somebody is not welcome at one of their events or at any of them. That is the host's own door and not our decision.
- Blocking is different again. It is a member's own choice, and we do not review it.
Appealing a decision
- If we remove your content, or restrict or suspend your account, you can ask us to look again.
- Reply to the message we sent you, or write to us at the address in our Terms of Service, and tell us what you think we got wrong.
- A person reviews an appeal, and where we can, not the person who made the original decision.
- We will tell you the outcome. Where we got it wrong we put it back.
- Where an account was suspended over something that put people at risk, the suspension stands while we look at it again.